FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION (FMG)

Having recently read Waris Dirie’s (The Original Desert Flower) previous experiences of Female Genital Mutilation (Sunday Times Magazine) and the incredible charity she has set up to protect daughters of families who practice FMG, I felt compelled to write the following poem to help raise awareness of this human injustice and would like to honour Waris Diries and The Desert Flower Foundation for their noble efforts to prevent the ignorant brutality.


FMG : A CRIME, A SIN, A HUMAN INJUSTICE

Taken by the hand,
A girl aged just five to seven,
She doesn’t understand,
It’s her “ticket to heaven”.

She’ll remember this day,
Reminders; there will be plenty,
It’s not time for play,
It’s “preparation” for her being twenty.

More likely, much younger,
The reason for today will come,
And not at all, for some.

Her chaperone blinkered and stern,
In the name of Allah the deed must be done,
Prepared to be forceful, it is her turn,
The little girl’s instincts’ scream, “shun”.

Stopping abruptly, she’s met by her mum;
In the back of her mum’s mind, she wished she had had a son.
For what she is about to do,
Is torture her daughter,
She knows this well having been too,
Like a lamb to the slaughter.

The blood she will lose,
Her life is in danger,
Infection, disease,
Her mother’s a stranger.

In the agonising days ahead of her,
She will feel pain with no end,
For the rest of her life,
This day will extend.

The man picks her up,
He lays her across a table,
The girl trusts her father,
So he’s easily able.

Little does she know,
She should kick and punch,
For no help will come,
When it comes to the crunch.

Her family surround her,
The time ahead will strip them of their definition,
Perpetrators is what I prefer,
This poor little girl, the only one to demur.

Brainwashed they restrain her,
Her legs sprawled open,
Allah they refer,
The Quran, they should reopen,
For no holy book would condone their actions to follow,
Unbeknown to their ignorant, uneducated minds,
Their actions are hollow,
A vast majority find this impossible to swallow.

Their international counterparts;
People of the same faith, who’s stomachs’ are churning,
Know this family are far from discerning,
They may prevent hostility towards them in their locality,
But little do they know the extent of their brutality.

This pure, innocent, and vulnerable child,
Subject to a pain never felt by most of humanity,
To be bestowed on her by the one’s she loves,
It’s just utter insanity.

For the satisfaction of a future husband she’s not ready to know of,
Her family grant him more power than god,
What god fearing man would find satisfaction,
As a result of such barbaric action?

A dirty old razor blade extends from her mother’s hand,
Her clitoris cut, and then canned,
Her shriek is soul destroying,
Excruciating pain flows through her body.

Cry as she might,
It’s far from over,
Pharaonic circumcision involves moreover,
Again, by her mothers hand,
Her labia are cut,
Sharp thorns are used to close the wound shut.

Her screams are deafening,
Her quality of life diminished,
Shock, and Infection still threatening,
The detriments remain unfinished.

Continuous bleeding,
Her anatomy asunder,
The whole situation’s an extreme blunder.

Sickeningly,
Her family are proud of their work,
According to them they hadn’t shirked.

Illegal, their actions,
Immoral, much more,
Their work shakes me,
Shakes me to the very core.

What ensues?
Chronic Inflammation of her vagina, bladder, and/or kidneys,
An inability to pass urine,
A tumour the size of a tennis ball,
Incontinence,
Sexual discomfort,
It simply won’t do,
Such a future for this little girl is so incredibly undue.

Her future husband will cut her open for intercourse,
Her husband and family will show no remorse,
It’s right by them and that is that,
It’s just the little girl’s habitat,
What god forsaken place would promote such inhumane behaviour?,
Where the perpetrator is considered as some form of saviour!

This lunacy must end,
We must collectively halt this trend,
Innocence cries for help,
Gasping for air between each yelp.

If only we could gift them with power,
If only each girl had their own desert flower;
A charity protecting young girls from such terror,
Funding their education and family expenses,
Parents protect their daughter’s as they should,
In-line with naturally compassionate parenthood.

This Desert Flower must grow no end,
For their are thousands of daughters it has to defend.


If you would like to know more about Waris Dirie and The Desert Flower Foundation and support them in their worthy cause please visit: http://retteeinekleinewuestenblume.de/

CHARACTER

The definition of ones’ traits,
The application of their tendencies painting a portrait.

Ever changing contexts,
Time passes by,
The subjective beholder,
Unknowingly creating a lie.

To explain true character is no easy feat,
Situational and witness dependent,
An accurate portrayal never comes neat.

Limited by language in our articulation,
We try our best in our speculation,
Naturally in ore,
It’s admired by all,
Yet acknowledgement is thin,
Silence…..,
Applause comes from deep within,
Expressing such levels of admiration requires no conscious limb.

Standing ovations are instinctively avoided;
Fear of undermining the unexplainable miracle that is character,
A respectful intuition preventing displays becoming conditional,
For true heroes,
Such thanks aren’t that traditional.

Contagious,
Uplifting is this virus beginning with ‘C’,
Who would have thought it,
A very proud individual they could be whomever caught it.

Yet, harmonious with it’s wondrous qualities,
It remains subtle, calm, and sophisticated in any given context,
Even when overtly exercised,
It’s with thought and never vex.

Humble always,
Recognition not required,
For anything existential,
It never gets’ tired.

For that’s what we all conceive it to be,
A truth beyond words,
A spectacle,
A delight for anyone to see.

Inside the energy hides,
Forever in our soul,
It never dies.

It’s the antidote to all evil,
It’s the compassion for those who need it;
Defender of liberty,
Appreciation and vitality for life,
In my experience of humanity,
This quality of “Character” is rife.

DESTINY

As unpredictable as you are,
I will make every effort to make you great.
No matter how near or how far,
I will never leave you to simple fate.
 
Without considering you,
My life would have no meaning,
Directionless I’ll be,
Inexperienced in dreaming.
 
What a terrible shame,
To not wonder what you are.
Mandatory we should make,
A voir.
 
Affected by the present,
Your elusiveness remains incessant,
Regardless,
I’ll endeavour,
To realise your potential,
Your contribution to my life’s fulfillment is exponential.
 
Ever changing at each point in time,
I should never fail to remember your name,
For at positive destinations,
I’ll never be able to claim,
I control my own destiny……

EXHAUSTION

Months have passed,
Further I descend,
Time heals all wounds,
I’m not subject to such a trend.

Exhausted I sit,
Pen barely in hand,
Defenseless, I’m hit,
I simply can’t stand.

My psyche’s a mess,
My thoughts are scrambled,
I long for far less,
My mental health un-handled.

The perpetrator lies deep within,
Hidden in the depths of my mind,
To my recovery herein,
He won’t be kind.

Aware of the mountain I have to climb,
I know it to be suffocating,
Made worse by the thoughts that are cultivating.

Frustration from the seemingly endless feat;
I just can’t make it,
I’m not so fit,
Negative thoughts,
There’s a bottomless pit.

There is no peak,
My perpetrator continues with hide and seek,
Through years of practice,
He has mastered this game,
Easy wins; I can’t proclaim,
Ever changing contexts,
It’s never the same,
Losing to him would result in more than shame.

All efforts on victory,
Procrastination sets in,
Exhausted, I mellow in adverse history,
How I’ll overcome this remains a great mystery.

My memory shot to pieces,
I forget how to win,
Lacking a thesis,
I’m a victim of sin.

When will I remember,
Where I put the key to vitality,
Continuing down this path may result in my fatality.

That’s it!,
Discontinue!,
Disengage!,
I simply just need to turn the page.

I must let go of my pride,
For that’s what’s created this never ending ride,
For I don’t need to win, to win,
Just as I don’t need to sin, to sin.

Ignorance will see my heart ache,
Not learning from my mistakes,
I must banish this perpetrator to save my spirit,
I don’t need to fight,
In order to kill it.

Goodbye!,
Good riddance!,
You, I hope never again to see!,
Goodbye!,
Good riddance!,
To exhausted me!

EGO

Confidence can be confused,
Leaving the beholder bemused,
As to why they’re not accepted,
As part of a team, they’re not selected.

Their visions, plans and efforts are challenged,
By those aware they consider themselves superior,
Usually compared to the simplest of criteria.

The smallest of accomplishments feeds their ever growing ego,
All whom they encounter,
They feel compelled to tell,
Just how great they are is what they sell.

These people are the worst,
If they only realised they’re not blessed,
But in fact cursed.

With an ego everything’s a race,
If only this wasn’t the case,
The world would be a better place,
And life would be lead at a less volatile pace.

The incessant need to glorify one’s ability,
Only ever breeds hostility,
There’s nothing wrong with competition,
Yet when conflict becomes repetition,
It’s always someone’s ego on the line,
Such a threat is never fine,
Defending their pride,
It’s been known to the death,
They become so ignorant to the fact,
They’re wasting their breathe.

Superfluous exchanges,
The never ending battle of fire against fire,
Acceptance they’re better being their only desire.

We’ve all fallen victim,
We’ve all made it a priority,
If only we could see the light,
It would be one incredible society…….